There's Nothing To "Fix" - F Clutter Wednesdays

Today we're going to pick up where we left off in our conversation on opening last week and turn our attention to the parts of us that we might feel are "broken" or that we have to "fix". 

It's so easy to feel this way about our clutter but also about other things (food, weight, money etc...). There's this believe that if I could only FIX the part of me that is "broken" that my life would be great. 

I have a lot to say on this topic and some of it might be surprising to you. 

(Please note I use strong language in the video so you may want to listen with headphones if you have little ones around.)

Can you relate to this? Do you feel like you need to "fix" the parts that are "broken"? What if you didn't have to fix anything? I'd love to hear about it, comment below to let me know.

I'm still looking for ideas for future videos so please hit reply and let me know what questions you have and what you want to hear more about. 

Love,
Cecilia

Opening - F Clutter Wednesdays

Today we're talking about opening. Why this is important as it relates to clutter is that where there's clutter there is grasping either on an emotional, mental or physical level. Where there is grasping there is closing.

So how do we open? The way we usually try to open is we try to force the part that's closed to let go which is kind of like trying to pry a toy out of a two year old's hands.

Watch the video for a lovely helpful reframe which supports opening without making the part that's closed wrong. Yay!

(Please note I use strong language in the video so you may want to listen with headphones if you have little ones around.)

I'm curious to hear what this brings up for you. Are you aware of the part that's grasping? Can you find a part that is already open? I'd love to hear about it, comment to let me know.

I have a request! What you would like me to talk about in future videos? Please drop me a line with any questions you have about clutter, perfectionism or life.

Love,
Cecilia

Do "Something" - F Clutter Wednesdays

I'm back in the world after being on a literal mountain where I was meditating for a couple of weeks. And what a world... Yeesh!

Today I want to talk about doing SOMETHING when you're overwhelmed by the ALL and the NOTHING. The all or nothing of your home, your life or the state of the world. Because there's a lot of ALL in the world right now and it's easy to feel totally overwhelmed and frozen in the face of the crazy.

(Please note I use strong language in the video so you may want to listen with headphones if you have little ones around.)

What's the one thing that's clear for you right now? What's the "something" you can do? I'd love to hear about it, comment below to let me know.

As I mentioned in the video, my friend Marcia sent out an email today about this not being a time to let your perfectionist stop you from doing "something" in the wake of "Literal, actual Nazis marching in America right now." Here's a link to her email which has lots of somethings to do: https://ckarchive.com/b/zlughnhk8m64

Love,
Cecilia